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Writer's pictureLena Baker

Bridal Guide: Your SO Popped the Question… Now What?

Updated: Nov 29

Congratulations! You’ve just said “Yes!” to the love of your life, and now you’re staring down the exciting road to “I do.” While this time is full of love, joy, and happy tears, it’s also the start of one of the biggest projects of your life—planning your dream wedding. Don’t worry; we’ve got you covered. Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you navigate this journey with confidence and ease.


Step 1: Savor the Moment


Before diving into wedding planning, take a moment to soak it all in. Celebrate your engagement with your partner, call your loved ones, and maybe even plan an engagement party. Remember, this is the beginning of a beautiful chapter in your life.


Step 2: Start Dreaming


Picture your wedding day.

• Do you want a beach wedding, a city rooftop, or a rustic barn setting?

• Is it an intimate affair or a grand celebration?

Begin by discussing your wedding day vision with your partner. Think about the season, theme, and overall size of the wedding you both envision.


Step 3: Set a Budget


Money talk isn’t glamorous, but it’s crucial.

• Decide how much you’re comfortable spending on your wedding budget.

• Talk to family members who may want to contribute.

Once you have a budget, prioritize what matters most—whether it’s the wedding venue, the dress, or the food—and allocate your funds accordingly.


Step 4: Build Your Dream Team


You don’t have to do it all alone. Start assembling your wedding planning team:

• Your Partner: Keep them involved—it’s their day too!

• Family and Friends: Identify your helpers, from decision-making to DIY projects.

• Wedding Professionals: If the budget allows, hire a wedding planner to help organize and execute your vision.


Step 5: Choose the Date and Venue


Decide on a wedding date and book your wedding venue early—these decisions will influence many other planning details. Popular venues can book out far in advance, so secure yours as soon as possible.


Step 6: Start with the Dress (or Suit!)


Shopping for wedding attire is one of the most exciting parts of wedding planning. It’s never too early to start looking for the one. Pro tip: Visit boutiques that offer custom wedding dress options for a gown that truly feels like yours.


Step 7: Make a Guest List


Drafting a wedding guest list early can help you plan your venue, catering, and budget.

• Start with your must-invites (family, close friends) and work your way down.

• Be realistic about the guest count based on your budget and venue capacity.


Step 8: Plan Your Vendors


Think photographers, florists, caterers, and DJs or bands. Research local wedding vendors, read reviews, and book your favorites early to ensure availability.


Step 9: Set Your Priorities


Remember that no wedding is “perfect,” but it can be perfect for you. Decide what matters most—whether it’s an unforgettable menu, a killer dance floor, or a show-stopping dress—and let go of the rest.


Step 10: Enjoy the Ride


Wedding planning can feel overwhelming, but remember to enjoy the process. Take breaks when needed, lean on your support system, and keep the focus on celebrating your love.


Final Thoughts


Saying “yes” was just the beginning of an incredible journey. As you navigate the next steps, keep in mind that your wedding is a reflection of you and your partner. Whether you follow tradition, break the mold, or mix a little of both, what matters most is the love you share.


Looking for the perfect wedding dress shopping experience? At Lena’s Bridal Studio, we specialize in customizable gowns and creating an unforgettable experience for every bride. Book your appointment today to start designing the wedding look of your dreams.


Here’s to love, laughter, and happily ever after!

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